Play dates are lots of fun, I know my kids love having friends over as well as playing at their homes.
As parents, it is up to us to teach our kids to be courteous and respectful when at other’s homes. We cannot expect that they will just know as they don’t.
I believe having respect for other’s homes as well as your home shows the universe you appreciate what you have and are more likely to attract more good things into your life (anyone read ‘The Secret’?).
Here are 5 guidelines to teach your child so that they are invited back over again.
1. Put Rubbish in the Bin
Recently I hosted a party where I gave kids lollipops as a treat. I was surprised that half the kids left the wrapper and lollipop stick on my carpet floor. I was not impressed!
2. No Jumping on Furniture
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3. Take Shoes Off
If unsure of what the best approach is, you can always ask the host as I know everyone has different rules on this. Generally, for my kids, I teach them that if it is carpet to take their shoes off or at least ask.
When it is wet and muddy outside make sure your kids know to take off their shoes regardless so they do not dirty the inside of the house (this also applies at home too).
4. Use Manners – Please and Thank You
Manners go a long way and this is great to teach your children for everyday life.
5. Take Plate to Sink after Eating
Especially if the kids are sharing a meal, helping take their plate to the sink and any other dishes is a big help and time saving for the host.
If you want to take it to the next level your child can offer and help with clean up such as stacking the dishwasher or wiping dishes.
If you are having kids over and you find that they are not following your house rules be sure to set your expectations. Some children are never taught hence don’t know what they don’t know.
What are other house rules you have when kids are on a playdate?
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